Talking of Relationships, doing it right.

 

Love: a passionate emotion felt towards someone or a group of people. It is also the greatest commandment in the  bible.

In today's generation, Love is taken to b fake,"there is nothing like love" or "love doesn't exist". It does but u just lack the  personality of a loving person. U don't just love to date, ur love to b loved by others.

In the  issue of loving a person erotically, u must be wise abt it I'm other to avoid disappointments. U also have to knw that love isn't sex but its trust,love is kind,it doesn't envy,it protects,it doesn't hurt, its patience nd so many more. U will see how  love applies in all.

  Sex: Sex isn't love but in d course of a relationship called marriage, it is needed to produce offsprings nd satisfy urges. This will have a link with dating.

Dating: dating is a norm in d society as a whole . These days u find out that frm ages 5 nd above re involved in dating. Most don't even knw wat it entails

People say that dating is 4 only adults because they wld b matured enough to handle it. But its a 50-50 thing u know, d fact that u are of the adult age doesn't make u mature enough to handle a relationship for maturity isn't by age but d way u think. If @ ur adult age you  still think that wen u re dating u have to b satisfied sexually den u aren't matuRed @all. I'm not trying to imply that teenagers or toddlers should think of dating. Infact they don't need it because some of them can endanger their lives due to their mentality nd dat of the opposite sex . D only thing most of the male sex want from teens is sex nd some have unprotected sex which is highly risky. Talking from experience, when I was in secondary school, some teenage gals got pregnant nd had to b school drop outs. They felt they were on d high level before their present situation but they saw when their mates graduated from secondary school moving into universities but they re limited for that period due to breastfeeding nd all that.

Dating is to get an experience of hw d opposite sex behave nd knwin hw to relate with the relationships u get into. Most times dates don't last but u might b lucky doe . Never mix dating wiv courtship cus they re two different similar things. How? Courtship is for engaged persons. They court to have an indebt knowledge of themselves before moving into marriage.

  Marriage: its a union of two people who re in love nd want to spend the rest of their lives together. It has to do wiv lots of sacrifices. And marriage has to b built on d right foundation because if the foundation is faulty then the marriage will collapse just like a building wiv no foundation.

 Nevertheless, marriage isn't meant for everyone nor should anyone rush into it or b rushed out of it. It has nothing to do with age. U have to b careful so as to meet wiv 'ur own'.

A broken date is better than a broken engagement and a broken engagement is far better than a broken marriage. Be WISE .

 BY UCHENNA OGBU

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